Morning everyone.
My dd (4.8 poss mild asd) was asked for the first time if she would like to come round for a play with one of the girls she goes to reception class with. At first I was over the moon, but then I became really nervous as this was a first for us all. Her behaviour overall has improved and she's able to play with children much better than she used to, hence the invite. However, after the initial excitment was over after we got there, the countless tantrums begun. Everytime something didn't go her way she started screaming and saying that she didn't want to be there anymore. She was also incredibly rude to the girls mother. She's lovely and I was so embarassed when my dd kept yapping at her everytime she asked her a question. I have a horrible feeling that we wont be getting another invite. It meant so much to all of us that this went well. We weren't expecting it to be perfect, but this was awful.
Just ideally would like to hear from somebody who has been in a similar situation.
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Disasterous first EVER playdate. Feeling back at square one again.
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