I've turned into one of those parents...the ones I used to think couldn't discipline their children.
I've just got back from town, where I went in2 shops and then had to come home as my ASD 3.5 year old was kicking off and upsettting his 2 year old brother. It culminated with me trying to pay a cheque in at the bank with one on the floor moaning and the other wailing standing next to me. All the queue looking and murmuring.
DS2 got burnt last week and has had to stay home, so DS1 has had solo trips into town with daddy all week....so I have one that wants one-to-one attention and one that needs to be exercised like a puppy every day, but who hasn't been out for a week. You think I'm overexageratting but I take them swimming and DS2 (2yrs, 5mths) will swim about 12 lengths of the little pool doggy paddle and play for ages, we usually stay there for 2hours, and he is still full of beans when we get home.
I am really struggling with both of them as they both need such different things. I always wanted to HE but when DS1 was diagnosed last november, we reevaluated adn thankfully, he has been accepted in the local special needs pre-school, starting September. I feel like I'm letting them down because I get so cross and just want to hide from them sometimes.
They are now sitting happily playing in seperate areas of the room but I estimate it will about 3 minutes before one upsets the other.
Is it always like this or am I just really crap at coping?
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I might stop going into town....
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ihavenewsockson · 12/07/2011 13:33
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