So he is 10, and is undergoing assessment & diagnosis.
They are not sure but know that there is something going on with him.
This has been such a relief to every one around him, and it had definitely increased my empathy and understanding.
He is almost OCD about things.
He cannot tolerate mess or dirt. We have had to move tables at restraunts before now as he has become very distressed. (although this i think is a normal reaction in a restraunt when the table is mucky)
He has not just frightened, he has utter utter terror at dogs. It is very upsetting to see him so very distressed when we are out.
He is intolerant of large groups of people, he cannot cope with changes in routine. His behaviour is at times very difficult to deal with, he has an agressive streak and at the same time, cannot recognise when he is overly rough causing actual pain to other kids.
He is fun, sweet, lights up the room and very very loving.
WE have a family holiday planned with him and his family soon, and i want to understand how we can fit into his world, understand and most of all help him by not putting our foot in it, being insensitive and we want to be supportive so that we all enjoy our holiday. We are very much looking forward to going away as we have been friends for ever, but we have no experience with sn children.
He is not aware of any of this, so his mum does not talk about it around him, so its not easy to ask stuff.
Think we may get together before the holiday without the kids so that we can talk properly, but would appreciate tips and advice from any one who has experience.
TIA x
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