He seems to be going through a new phase, for the last 6 months or so things have deterioated, and I know a lot of it is to do with how much he is struggling at school, but he has now started shouting really loudly at me when he doesn't get his way, and also getting a lot more upset and angry all the time when his plans don't turn out as he expected.
I really don't know how to handle it, I want to have a zero tolerance on the shouting, but sometimes it is easiest just to ignore him and sometimes he is actually so rude that I want him to know his actions have consequences (something he seems to understand) so today when he shouted at me and DP three times because he didn't want what I was making for dinner (he wanted hot dogs, I don't have hot dogs) we sent him to his room to calm down, then 5 minutes later went in there and told him calmly that because he shouted he lost his computer tomorrow (and we took the lead). He was upset and crying saying we were being horrible, he then shouted again so he lost monday's computer privilages too, and then we left him.
He then calmed down and came and helped me cook dinner in the kitchen,, but my god it is so draining.
Sometimes he is so so so difficult. He is very intelligent and sometimes I tihnk that makes his life harder, and mine too.
Any suggestions, advice, similar stories? What can we do differently?
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Really really struggling with behaviour management on 8yr old ASD DS, any help or advice greatly appreciated.
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