Hi, I'm a newbie but I'm hoping that some of you kind and knowledgeable MN'ers will be able to help.
My dd (6.9) suffers from Social phobia. She has previously suffered from selective mutism, but with a lot of work she is now speaking. However, this is not what you would consider to be at a normal level for her age. She will speak when she feels able to-but this is not consistent ie. she might be able to say hello to her friends one day, but not the next.
Her social phobia means that she is frightened of people, and is now begining to display a new symptom: whispering when in public. Before she has always been able to talk to us normally, but not respond to anyone else.
My problem is that her peers are now begginning to pick up on her behaviour and have begun to 'mention' her lack of speech. It is also becoming more and more apparent that she is finding mixing with her peers and joining in at play time difficult ie. she stays with the teacher.
She is a very small school and has been in the same mixed class for 3 years. In September she will be moving class into a mixed year 3-6 class.
I have no help with this: I did speak to the primary mental health worker last year who was less than useless. Her current teacher is fantastic, but has had a hard time understanding the concept of reduced communication. However, after parents evening tonight I think she is now very concerned.
My questions are these:
*Does anyone have any ideas on how I can help reduce her stress further and help her to interact with her peers better?
*Can anyone recommend any avenues for help? I am reluctant to contact the PMHW again after last year, but will do if necessary.
Thanks for your help guys.
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piedpiper4 · 09/03/2011 21:10
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