My 2.9 year old is quite idiosyncratic and I have always put this down to toddler quirks. But lately I've been a bit worried that some of his behaviour might be symptomatic of Aspergers.
I have a developmental assessment booked for next month But in the meantime, can anyone tell me if these are just bog-standard toddler quirks?
He is obsessed with washing machines. He talks about them in his sleep. He often mimics the spinning by spinning his arm. When he tries to engage in conversation in a social context it's often "washing machine haha". Similarly anything that spins - will spin bowls etc. He also likes kettles, tumble dryers, microwaves and hoovers. But his love for washing machines exceeds everything. He will watch it every day and for ages. He makes me draw them for him.
His social skills are very poor, unless it's with people he knows very well (family usually, even though we don't see them very often). Part of this is because we have a nanny share so no creche. I used to take him to toddler groups on my mornings off. But they seemed to stress him - he would stay close to me. He often tells me to go home when we head out in the car. We do have playdates (for want of a better word) and he is okay (not great) on a one to one basis. But he is very awkward and detached at birthday parties and other social events where there are lots of children playing. I've always though that he is just shy, I was chronically shy as child but less so these days. He mostly gets on well with DS2 though can be casually violent.
He is sometimes sensitive to noise and will object to the hoover (even though fascinated) because it's noisy.
Deeply loves all kinds of music. His speech has been quite delayed and while he now has a decent vocabularly, his pronounciation is still very unclear. Seems to struggle to communicate using words.
He has extreme emotional meltdowns. Again, this is what toddlers do. But he seems to have it so much more than my friends' children. I have always just linked this to his verbal difficulties and encourage him to try to use words instead of screaming and crying. But he won't, even when he can.
This is long. Thank you if you managed to wade through. Does this sound familiar to anyone?
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Does this sound like Aspergers?
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LadyDisdain · 15/02/2011 11:52
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