ok, this might be long. here goes....
dd1 will be 6 in march. she is in year 1 at school and has been having problems since she started there. she was fine until she started school, strong willed and difficult, but its only since she started school that her problems have really begun. she has been on a fixed term exclusion 3 times from school due to violence towards staff. these incidents include biting her teacher on the arm, knocking someone over which caused a broken elbow (she maintains that this was an accident, and i believe her) and kicking her TA in the leg. incidents have been less frequent since she went into year one, and also seem to be less intense.
there have been problems with homelife, in that i threw her dad out when she was nearly 3 due to him being violent towards me. he now has a new partner and a baby daughter, and lives not far away. until 6 months ago, contact with her dad was sporadic at best, and pretty much non-existent at times, however in the last 6 months, she has stayed at his house every single weekend, along with dd2 who is nearly 5. she idolises her dad, and thoroughly enjoys her visits to him.
things are quite good at the moment, apart from sometimes at school. her behaviour has been improving, she is no longer getting as violent, and seems better able to calm herself down when she does get het up. she is also no longer rampaging round school, screaming, shouting and knocking things over. she is an extremely bright little girl, but her schoolwork has been below par due to her disruptive behaviour, she is now beginning to catch up.
over the last 6 weeks or so, she has started wetting herself on occasion, usually at school, but more recently at home too. she is still dry at night, but wets herself sometimes in the day. today at school she went to the toilet, but due to messing around, managed to wet herself in the loo's, and then defecated and smeared it on the walls.
i am at the end of my tether really, she has never done this before, has been reliably dry day and night for nearly 3 years and i dont know what made her do that today. life at home is ok at the moment, she gets plenty of attention, and there is nothing bad going on.
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CherryMonster · 14/01/2011 23:19
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