...... and was the only one completely left out
DD is in year 7 and struggling. We haven't told anyone she has AS as we are worried Year 7s won't understand it.
Consequently the other girls in her class understandably find DD a bit strange (she doesn't like the things they like) and mostly ignore her. She is very lonely.
DD tells me that all the girls have been exchanging gifts and cards for christmas and she has been completely left out.
The worst thing about it is that DD genuinely does not understand what she does wrong socially and can't understand why she is so unlikeable. When she was younger DD was only worried about missing out on a present if this kind of thing ever happened. But now I see the painful realisation in her mind that there really is something "wrong" with her (sorry to put it like that but don't know how else to say it).
Would it be a good idea for her to tell people why she is like she is or would this open the door to bullying?
Has anyone been through this and have any insight?
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DD (AS) watched the other girls exchange xmas gifts....
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