Kind of a tricky situation today.
DS1 was in his school play.
He was poked, prodded, licked, grabbed around the neck, hugged and generally bothered by the small boy next to him. He smiled and laughed initially, but it quickly became not funny. I warned the teacher that he was likely to hit or possibly head butt the other child, she said she would do something.
The next performance (I went to both due to being quite worried after the first one) he came in worried, was seated in the same place, and was quite worried and upset, as the same behaviours were meted out to him. Luckily, he didn't hit or kick - admirable restraint IMO, not sure even most NT kids would put up with that for 30 mins. Nobody did anything, I couldn't catch anyone's eye, and at the very end the two boys were BOTH removed from the stage in disgrace.
DS1 is really quite upset, was already in a constant state of minor meltdown due to Xmas, snow etc. Tonight he is totally hair trigger, kicking off over absolutely nothing.
Tricky bit. Tne other child also has SN. He has an assistant. I don't know details, I shouldn't know that much. IMO, that's irrelevant, if he has known issues then the staff should be managing his behaviour - my concern is my son, who has HFA, and who was pushed to his limits today. DS1 does not have a statement, although I am starting the process, and have been particularly galvanised by today. Clearly, the teacher is just expecting him to cope. .
AIBU to write in and request a meeting to complain? It was "only" a play, the other child has SN, he wasn't physically hurt. But I feel that it's very symptomatic- I don't know if they think I am lying or deluded, but my son is completely unsupported in school. (That's at the equivalent of SA+.)
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FrostyTheCrunchyFrog · 14/12/2010 17:52
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