Hi everyone.
I'm really stuck with this one. My dd who's nearly 4 possibly has asd and will be in her first christmas play in a few weeks. I have to say i'm absolutely dreading it. I feel like such a terrible mother for saying that. I know I should me excited and proud, but I can't get the image of my dd running around the stage twirling round and round in circles and basically ruining it for everyone else. If she's in the right mood she'll probably do ok, but if she isn't I can picture the scene and it aint pretty!loads of screaming "I DON'T WANT TO DO IT!!" etc. I read one thread with someone saying they wish that children with these problems didn't have to take part. The thing is, i'm not sure how I feel about this. I know all the other mums and dads will be sat there beaming with pride with a packet of tissues. I'm sure i'll have tissues, but for very different reasons.
I'm sure lots of you are having to face this inevitable dilema, so I was just wondering what your opinions were. Also, does anyone have any tips on how to maybe make the whole process go a little smoother. Just to make things more stressful, my dd doesn't like the role she's been given.GREAT!!! It's not girly enough for her and she's very jealous of the girls who got the girly, fairy roles. Most children would just sulk, but because of my dd's problems, she could potentially lose it on the day.
Any comments, advice or experiences much appreciated.
Thanks :)
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Here are some suggested organisations that offer expert advice on special needs.
SN children
Oh the horrors of the Christmas play!
40 replies
Mustbetimeforwine · 23/11/2010 19:06
OP posts:
ArthurPewty ·
23/11/2010 20:01
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
StarlightMcKenzie ·
23/11/2010 20:06
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.