HI All
Not a regular poster, more of a lurker and taker of expert advice and tips, however, son ASD (9) had his first meltdown on the way to school this morning. Just as a bit of background, the school requested a statutory assessment for him which was turned down, the reason given that there were a couple of gaps in provision that they felt the school could be providing for him and these have now been put into place by the school. He has clearly been struggling since the age of 5 and is approx 2 years behind academically. Anyway to fast forward to this morning he had his first ever meltdown on the way to school and was absolutely beside himself begging me not to send him in and if I loved him I wouldnt be making him go, he also got really angry and threw a bottle of water around the car. I knew he wasnt happy at school and has high anxiety and is struggling in all areas but this has really shaken me. I got him into school and had a word with the headteacher to let her know what had happened. I cannot let this be a regular occurrence as I am worried about his mental wellbeing.
We have a three month window to get through before we can even apply for another statutory assessment. I am not thinking straight this morning so would be really grateful if any of you mums out there could let me know what options or ideas we can put in place in the meantime to help him. Thanks.
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time4chocolate · 22/11/2010 12:09
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