I feel I have exhausted all avenues and letting my DS, aged 6, down. I desperately need some advice. Lets start from the beginning, my DS was born 2 weeks early, had severe reflux and was a very unhappy baby. He was late walker, had a speech delay and would have a meltdown or run around (when meant to be sitting down) if I took him to any sort of playgroup (there were many!). He would pull other childrens hair, chew their toys and bite them on occassion. He had speech therapy and they also put him forward to be assessed by an OT for dyspraxia. His preschool tried to help and although he is lovely he is very very stubborn when he doesn't want to do something. He is an Aug baby so started school shortly after his 4th bday which was way too soon. It was very traumatic for him, he didnt settle well & his teacher said he was "away with the fairies & very labour intensive". He finally had his OT assessment and although his lack of balance was noted he "passed the test". He is being treated by an Osteopath (which is great), homeopath and by an developmental therapist (brushing...sounds odd but I will try anything to help him) His school put him forward to be assessed by an ED Psychologist who said he had a very active mind and could not filter excess stimuli which affected his concentration. He was recently seen again by the Ed Psych who ruled out Dyslexia but wants a medical referral for assessment of his attention difficulties. I had a parent consultation with his teacher who said she feels she is letting him down as she doesn't know how to motivate him (he wont do any work) and asked for help from me. (I am working on a reward system that she & I can work together on)
Behaviour at home is fine as long as he his not under pressure and master of his universe. It does take a lot of patience as tasks are never done upon first request & things need to be explained over & over. I have read most child development books & implemented most strategies which work for a short time.
Sorry about this rant however this has been a long road for us and I just can't stop crying. I feel I have run out of tools to help my child and just need some help to get us through this. We have an appt with the GP tomorrow but I just don't know what to say, who to ask to be referred to etc. I just want diagnosis & guidance on how to deal with this. Can anyone give me some advice?
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moneytree · 15/11/2010 11:59
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