Hi
I have a 4 year old boy who is autistic. I recently decided to give up work to spend more time with him and because I was finding it difficult to get mainstream childcare for him. I am now thinkign of setting up a cattery to try and get a balance between working but being at home for him. However being realistic I am going to need some extra help with him, mainly for a couple of hours each morning. I am thinking of getting an au pair as its home based care and affordable.
My mum has kind of put me off the idea by making a snide remark that my DS needs stability and that I may as well have stayed at work if I was going to get an au pair. This is what she did with me and my sister and in her words wouldn't have dreamed of having iot any other way. She doesn't seem to understand that I have to have a balance between caring for him, having an income and interests of my own.
I wondered if anyone had any views/experience of if an au pair would be disruptive for an autistic child? Henry is quite sociable and very good at reading emotions, his autism more manifests itself in the sense of not following instructions/having his own agenda.
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henryhsmum · 17/10/2010 12:03
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