I am feeling so miserable this morning.
4yo dd1 has just started school, and I have just had a meeting with the SENCo. Dd1 has problems with her gross motor skills and some sensory perception issues (overperceiving movement). She also flaps and stamps when she gets excited. And doesn't like large groups.
The SENCo was very nice and has said she will put her on school action plan (not quite certain what that means). But I feel I am constantly defining dd1 in terms of her shortcomings and then scrutinising everything she does in terms of whether it is a sign of anything. SENCo started asking questions about how quickly she processes information, and whether she has friends, and once I start thinking about it I find she does take a minute or two to respond to things on the whole, and actually has only just started to have friendships and is reluctant to make friends with her new classmates.
I feel really miserable about it. And I've just bitten my mother's head off as I thought she was being insensitive, and she got really upset and then didn't really accept my apology. I just want to cry and cry and I don't know what to do with myself.
I feel as though my mother never says anything positive about dd1. Even when I asked her outright whether she actually liked her, her response was to defend the situation in which she had got cross with her rather than to tell me anything she did like about her.
Sorry for this very self-indulgent ramble, it isn't very coherent I expect, but I just feel horrible. Please come and give me a shake/pat on the back/chocolate cake.
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Aranea · 22/09/2009 13:10
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