Hi everyone
I'm looking for some words of encouragement really. My son, who is 15 has always achieved things much later than his peers; he crawled late, delayed in walking, talking, pretty much everything. He has always had lovely reports from his teachers that tell me how hard he works and how, despite being unable to access the subject's content, he'll try and keep trying.
He enjoys school and has never had issues with peers or anyone else. He struggles with Maths and English, very badly.
I've been told that he could understand a formula, or a method very well, and could accurately answer 100 questions, but the minute there is context and abstract text, he can't get it. This is rippling into his other subjects too. So long as the there requires to be abstract analysis or context to a question that he is unfamiliar with, he is lost.
He has see an ed psych in primary school and they have told me he has a poor working memory. They haven't said anything else which I assume means he doesn't display signs of autism or dyslexia.
I sit with him and create mind maps and for his recent English Lit exam, where he had to analyse Shakespeare, I nearly cried- How can they expect him to ever to access complex text like Shakespeare? The exam also contains poetry and again, its so abstract and he can't look or read between the lines. He failed his exam, and got a very poor mark. I just want him to have good opportunities in the future and I am running out of ways to help him.
The teachers at school all said the same thing "repetition, mind maps, videos" should help but I've tried with no luck.
Are there any parents on here with children with similar struggles, or maybe who have gone through this and can offer some words of wisdom?
I feel like such a helpless crap mother and that I have failed him. He deserves so much better than this and it's not fair that this is happening to him.
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Help- Son failing exams "U"- very poor working memory. Feeling like I've failed him
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LilMissRe · 09/03/2020 07:06
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