DS, 11, had ADHD diagnosed a few years ago. He thrived at his wonderfully supportive primary school , they knew how to handle him and he felt safe and secure. He still faced problems of course, found it hard keeping on track and could not concentrate on his Sats, although he got really good marks in maths. Friendships were a challenge. He made friends easily but then would sabotage them by being silly and saying inappropriate things so that gradually friends started to distance themselves , eventually refusing to come to ours, always with what could have been a genuine excuse, but we knew the reason really.
He is now in her 7 at High School. It has been an absolute disaster. It started off by him being bullied but he would then get into trouble as he could not help retaliating. If school do not ring at least once a day then I am pleasantly surprised. He has alienated other children and teachers as he has no concept of what not to say to people. He is regularly thumped as he will say something inappropriate to the more " streetwise" kids but I feel as if it has become a vicious circle. Dh, Ds and I all feel thoroughly demoralised.
I have explained his adhd needs should be taken into account in lessons but he is regularly sent out for shouting out or becoming involved in altercations with others.
School have said they will apply for an EHCP. What is the process please? How will this help him?We cannot take much more of him trudging into school each morning with his head down.
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Grandadwasthatyou · 25/11/2018 21:43
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