DD just 9, has always been behind at school. We have always felt she is just a bit immature, and that she needs a more active learning environment - we have asked for a bit more support and have been told in various ways that she is a bit stubborn and difficult though the school has tried in various ways to give her some extra support in the past. She also has social difficulties at school, but not really outside school [we feel she is excluded and there is some meanness, but we can't be sure how she behaves at school, and I think there is some collective awareness that she is different in some way. She is though very sweet and has good friends outside school.] I guess i hoped she would grow out of her academic issues, but she had a trial day at a private school recently and they picked up on a few things - her very picky eating habits, her very slow writing skills [45 minutes for one para] and her below average maths ability. She is exceptionally imaginative, and very empathetic. She is also very bad at sitting still to eat, very picky about food, slow to get dressed, and pretty damn stubborn. I am worried about her being on the spectrum, but guess now we must get an Ed Psych report to get to the heart of the issue. I guess no one up now [fretting] but just wonderd if autism can present in girls whilst being v imaginative and expressive, very verbal and empathetic. I can't really put my finger on what the issue is, though I am hardly an expert - but she seems socially naive, though very friendly, and just not matured as much as we hoped in this last year. I thought she might be dyspraxic due to some motor skills issues but she is a fab ski-er and ice skater, and never had problems riding a bike or anything like that. Sorry if I sound horribly ignorant about all this! Just v worried about her after the private school assessment, and the large, clunky handwriting of her paragraph that took her 45 minutes to write seemed a bit shocking to them. Her reading age is above average though apparently, so weird.
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