Hi, I was unsure where to post this, but I thought this was the most appropriate place to post.
My brother and his wife have adopted two children one year ago. The eldest was taken away from birth parents around 3 years and the youngest about a week after birth (at the same time). The eldest child is 4.5 years old and is a lovely girl. My DB knew the eldest child was delayed, but over the past year there has been very little language development, and I would judge at the level of a two year old, maybe 30 months. They can maybe put two words together, but no sentences. The child was assessed and this was all noted but the case was closed. The child is at school and the reports show she is a lovely girl but is way behind her peers.
I spent time with her over Christmas and she is lovely, and I am becoming attached to her. The problem as I see it is that I think my DB and his wife are ignoring the problem. They are so good for her in so many ways. I think they need to be pushing for help rather than waiting for help to come. I could be wrong.
Now, the easy answer is that I should perhaps butt out and be a good Aunt, but I know my brother and I think I recognize the pattern of him being a bit avoidant and I think early intervention could help. For example they were offered theraplay but turned it down. We live a long way away so I know my influence is almost zero.
What would you advise?
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KellysZeros · 29/12/2016 19:21
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