Hi,
If I mention some of my 10 yr old DS' behaviours, could you say if they hint at anything in particular or whether it's a testosterone/testing me type thing? I must point out that two years ago DS was diagnosed with temporal lobe nocturnal epilepsy but has been seizure free for 21 months.
Refuses in the main to get himself dressed. He tells me to get his clothes out and doesn't easily remove his PJs and then has to be nagged to put the clothes on.
He won't go up and brush his teeth. He wants to come up and put the toothpaste on for him and brush them.....most of the time.
He has massive melt downs for very minor reasons. Last year, two episodes lead to him trying to self harm. Today, he couldn't do his origami and he went bonkers! Swearing and screaming for about half an hour. Hitting out at me and constantly swearing and kicking the dresser with the fish tank on etc. I swiftly removed the scissors just in case! Afterwards, he lay. On the floor curled up saying " please take me to a hospital to make me better". He said he had felt funny like when he has a seizure.
He has Selective Eating Disorder but after dietician appointments and specialist appointments, they said he isn't starving and therefore they cannot offer he,p. The SED makes social stuff hard.....picnics at Cubs or staying at friends (he doesn't do that much) is tricky. He hasn't been on a school trip.....mainly because of the nocturnal seizures but also because he just wouldn't eat.
Such small things are huge to him and upset him so easily. DD (13) only has to smile at the him in the wrong way and she will get kicked or sworn at.
He loves being outdoors and hates going to school.....another issue. He regularly says he isn't going and whilst he is skinny, he is really getting strong and I ant drag him to school anymore!
Any ideas? School wouldn't get it. They say he is angelic at school and is conscientious and works as hard as he can.
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Querying 10 yr old behaviours
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Verbena37 · 06/05/2015 22:35
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