I have a 14 week old DD who won't self settle, no matter what we try. No matter how exhausted she is, she starts to wail as soon as we start the bedtime/naptime routine and can continue for up to an hour and a half until she goes to sleep.
She's generally a good sleeper at night, once she has finally gone to sleep (usually about 9 after all the screaming) she sleeps through until any time between 3:30 and 6, has a feed and then I pop her back into the moses basket, she goes straight to sleep again until about 8.
So, she can self settle herself at night after a feed, but is unable to at any other time.
To settle her we've tried shush-patting and then head stroking as she seems to like that better. DH used to walk her up and down until she dropped off on his chest and then put her down asleep, but I can't do that as I have a bad hip and can't walk the distance required! So we need a solution that doesn't involve moving on my part ideally.
We've been loosely following the baby whisperer, so Eat, Activity, Sleep. I'm starting to think that, as she can drop straight off after her night feed that changing it to Activity, Eat, Sleep might be preferable, but this seems to be seen as a bad thing? What I'm really trying towork out is whay, and is it going to cause issues in the future?
Any other suggestions welcome!
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lucky1979 · 10/02/2010 09:20
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