My daughter is nearly 2. What I want is for her to go to sleep by herself as the current situation is driving me a bit nutty, but from where we are at the moment I?m just not sure how to get there.
She?s up comparatively late, around half past seven, eight and has a nap around 3pm. I can?t seem to make it any earlier (what with lunch and so on and also because she has her main meal in the middle of the day, not the evening) but also because when I have tried to make it earlier, it just takes longer to get her off. I?ve never been able to put her in the cot and let her get on with it. I used to rock her then once she refused to tolerate that, I cuddled her on the bed and now she?s refusing to tolerate that she wants either to sit down with me (?sit down?, she says!) or to lie on my shoulder when I stand up. She does ask to go in the cot, but she can?t get the idea of keeping still and closing her eyes to get off to sleep, or even sometimes just lying down without jumping back up again. So, the upshot of all of this is that it takes ages to get her off to sleep most days (sometimes up to 40 minutes) by which time I often end up having to wake her up around half past four or so if I want her to go to bed before 10pm at night.
At night, it?s all of this again and the end result is that I?m sometimes eating at half past ten at night plus I?m having next to no evening time for myself or with my partner. I wouldn?t mind if she took a long time to go to sleep ? the problem is that I have to be there to do it. If I go out the room (I have tried ? I say I?ll be back in a moment, etc) she will call out to me almost indignantly (she won?t cry ? just calls out for me). I?m also aware that all I seem to be doing is elongating the time it will take for her to get off to sleep.
She does a lot during the day ? we go out in the mornings and in the afternoons, so she?s tired enough (I hope). I can?t pass any of this on to my partner because she just wants me and also because in the evening, I breastfeed her before she settles off to sleep.
I think I need advice for how to slowly (and I know it will be a slow process) get her to go to sleep by herself in the cot without me being there and also suggestions to amend our daily routine so that I?m not eating when most people are going to bed! Thanks!
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How to get a 2-year-old to go to sleep by herself
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violeta · 05/02/2010 13:10
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