dd (nearly 4) had a sleep over at her gran & grandad's last night. she appeared to have had great fun and they said she had slept well. tonight i put her to bed and she woke up an hour later in a panic. she was shaking and told me she doesn't want to be tickled anymore ("it's not fair"). she went on about monsters and how scary gran's house was. she has had sleepovers before at her gran's, but not at this particular house.
it took me 45 minutes to calm her down.
should i talk to my MIL & FIL about this? any ideas on how to make her feel better?
i would talk tothem, try to make it sound like your not accusing them of anything, also ask dd about what she said in detail. give her loads of cuddles and tell her she doesnt ave to go again if she doesnt want to.