Our lovely 10-month-old baby has never been a great sleeper, perhaps partly because I've always rushed to his side every time he has whimpered (he a first baby).
Now, at nearly 10 months, he is waking at least twice a night, often more often. I feed him once, at about 3am (I cut out the other feeds a few months ago when he was sleeping next to us in a co-sleeper cot ... he cried a bit and I hugged him - it was easy and I'm not sure why the 3am feed stayed in place!)
I have always been v v resistent to CC or CIO but now I am v tired and sometimes in the night when I go to him and pick him up, I get the impression he wishes he hadn't woken up (once he is calm he makes a move that shows he wants to go back to his cot). MAYBE a little gap before I go to him would teach him how to get back to sleep.
But he sleeps with a dummy, definitely a prop (sometimes in the early evening all he needs is the dummy placed back in his mouth for him to turn on his side and sleep again - at dawn he wants to be picked up). I don't see how I can leave him to cry a little if I have to go in and check the dummy is in. It falls out when he cries. During the day he sometimes sucks his thumb and I'd lvoe him to learn that at night.
So should I dump the dummy now, as I embark on some sleep training; or would it be too cruel all at once?
I realise I sound soppy. ANY advice, ideas would be very much appreciated!
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WISDOM pls - lose the dummy & sleep train in one go? Or separately?
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duedec2 · 14/09/2009 12:24
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