Hey all, of late I've been considering co-sleeping with my ds (6 months) sue to long and complex family sleep patterns which I won't go into.
I have a few basic questions about co-sleeping and would really appreciate advice/personal experiences/opinions from people who cosleep with their babies. All fairly practical, don't want to enter into any heavy debates. Here goes:
- Does it mean that you have to go to sleep at the same time as your baby (7pm or whatever)?
- If not: do you settle the baby and leave as if s/he were in a cot? And don't they wake up when you get back into bed later or during the night?
- What about sex?? Does it just have to happen somewhere else than in bed with baby asleep?
- Does your dp also sleep with you and baby? Mine would really struggle as is superlight sleeper, wanted to hear how others deal with dp in/out of cosleeping bed
- How do night feeds work? HAve heard mums say they hardly wake up for feeds and babies "help themselves", but can't see how that would work, even with feeding lying down how do you switch sides without moving the baby or yourself?
As you see very basic stuff, hope numbered questions don't seem a bit retentive but thought it would make for easier answering.
Thanks all in advance:-)