dd is just two and no longer naps in the day - her bedtimes were becoming ridiculously late and it became clear she no longer needed the nap. There was a while where she sometimes did and sometimes didn't but now she mostly doesn't.
But, she still doesn't go to sleep till, mostly, 8.30 or 9, which is when I'd like to be going to bed as am 31 weeks pregnant and totally exhausted. She wakes up between 7 and 8 which I know is a lie-in compared to some toddlers. She has recently started to sleep through at least some of the time but still often wakes at least once and sometimes comes into us at about 5 but goes back to sleep.
The problem is not just that I'd like her to go to sleep a little earlier but that our bedtime routine has become crazy long and because I am so tired by then I feel a bit out of control of it.
She has her bath and gets into her pjs and then has a bowl of porridge, then teeth then to bed for stories. This is where the messing around starts. She keeps getting up again and just messing around and seems genuinely not in the least bit tired.
Sometimes we just give in and let her roam about the place till she voluntarily says she wants to go to bed - but this will be after 9pm. Other times we try and persist. It sometimes becomes a battle and feels like she'll only realise her tiredness and succumb to it after tears.
I am an extended bf-er and for most of her life she's been fed to sleep. In the last couple of months we have made huge advances in that she will now fall asleep to a story and has even fallen asleep to other people reading a story - previously bedtime was strictly mum only. Also I can now leave her once she's in the zone and she will fall asleep alone. However I am succumbing to using the breast to wind her down as it just works like magic - because i'm pg there's really no milk there and I don't really want a long term comfort thing but more importantly I don't want her getting used to full feeds again when the baby comes and the milk comes back because I just don't feel I have the energy to bf two at once (I don't mind the odd one for dd but know that she'd get right back into it.)
Maybe we just have to get her up at 6 and then she'll go to bed at 7 but somehow any attempt to engineer things fall flat.
I'm just anxious that whatever our "routine" is is stable when the baby comes and that doesn't feel the case at the moment.
Sorry this has ended up being so long! Any thoughts welcome. What are other two year old sleeping habits? I know some that sleep from 1-3 and still go to bed at 7!!!
Thanks!
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Am I doing something wrong or does my two year old just not need as much sleep as others?
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alittleteapot · 08/08/2009 20:29
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