Can anyone offer any shared experience that will reassure me that this won't last, or advice on how to get past this?
DD is 16 weeks old and I promised myself that this time round I wouldn't get obsessed with the books, but now I'm not so sure....
She is exclusively bf, which I'm really pleased about and want to continue, but she is really not sleeping well and I'm getting to end of my tether with lack of sleep. She will only go to sleep by bfing or if in car seat in car or pushchair. I have very occassionally managed to get her to sleep with a dummy, if I know she's tired, not hungry.
So, is it normal/okay for a 16wo to bf to sleep, or should I be worrying about this.
I'm mainly worried because she is up about every 2 hours - she was sleeping better than this week, but last Tues, she had a procedure under GA, meaning she had to be nil by mouth for 4 hours prior to that and sleep has been terrible since - first I put it down to the heat, but last two nights have been worst. I know she can actually go to sleep without feeding because of nil by mouth experience, but that involved a lot of crying and me holding her and then her just giving in. She was going 3 or very occasionally 4 hours at night without food, so maybe this is a) just a growth spurt or b) just her recovering from procedure? This morning at 5.40am DH took her out in the car until 7 just to let me have some rest (although DS, 2.10 [bless him - grr] woke me at 6.10am shouting for his tiger, which had fallen out of bed). Really don't want to start that as a regular habit, but feeling exhausted. I do remember us each taking DS out in car on consecutive mornings when he was about this age (just the twice) over New Year, so maybe she's just following his pattern, but then he was on formula top-ups at that stage and went fully ff about 3 weeks later, so I'm concerned that unless I change to ff, DD is never going to sleep well.
Incidentally, she does have a sort of daytime routine and has about an hour's nap now (bf to sleep), will have another long nap early afternoon if we're out and about (although did have long nap in her cot the other day) and maybe a couple more catnaps after feeding, but never more than 3.5-4 hours across the whole day.
Sorry for rambling - any advice or shared experience welcome...
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16 week old exclusively bf still waking minimum every 2 hours at night - any experience to share?
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Starshinetiger · 06/07/2009 09:12
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