I have a gorgeous 4 month old DS. He is very good at night - he goes down about 7pm and normally sleeps until 4/5am, has a quick feed and wakes again about 7.30am. His big beaming smile when I look into his cot in the morning just melts my heart every time
He isn't great at sleeping during the day (something we are working on at the moment so by 7pm he is more than ready for bed. His routine at the moment is normally bath at 6pm, and then I feed him on our bed with the curtains closed. Quite often he will feed for the best part of an hour and probably 80% of the time he will fall asleep on the boob. I just gently sit him up to wind him and pop him into his cot.
Feeding him to sleep is much less stressful for both of us than the other 20% of the time when he is awake and will cry as soon as I try to out him in the cot. And to be honest I love snuggling up with him - I quite often have a quick snooze myself at the same time
On the nights I put him down awake he always cries and I seem to end up doing a mixture of every method going, PUPD, shush/pat, rocking etc - basically whatever it takes to soothe him.
I am very happy to continue with this but I keep being told that it is a bad idea and that I should be putting him down awake.
Is feeding to sleep really such a problem in the long run? I understand the point about him being able to settling himself during the night, but touch wood this hasn't been an issue yet?
Also am I sending him mixed messages by trying all these different methods when he is upset at bedtime.
I just want to enjoy my darling little boy but I've just got this nagging little doubt at the back of my head that I'm getting it all wrong and making it more dificult for him in the long run
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Is it a problem to feed to sleep?
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babyboysmum · 21/06/2009 22:49
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