DD is just over 4 months and we have gone from 2 night wakings to hard to settle and waking/crying lots etc.
I have decided to accept that this is how she is for now but I am truely exhausted. We co-sleep for part of the night which helps...a bit.
Anyway, I saw a friend today who is just horrified that DD wakes so much and even more so that we co-sleep.
She said to me today "you know you're going to have to teach her to sleep don't you?"
She then told me she left her son to cio at 7 months and it only took two nights before he "learnt to sleep through".
I told her I won't leave dd to cry, I don't agree with it and think it teaches her nothing about sleep. She accused me of being too soft and offered to do it for us while DH and I went out. The thought of my daughter crying herself to sleep, ignored by my friend while dh and I have a night out makes me feel sick.
My friend reckons that dd won't learn to sleep through without this and I'm setting myself up for years of co-sleeping and broken nights.
DD is my first so I have no idea how it will happen but cio/cc just aren't for us.
So, anyone who didn't do any kind of sleep training (I hate that expression) can you tell me how you went from being up several times in the night to dc in their own bed, sleeping through the night?
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I *have* to sleep train my 4 month old? Those who didn't, come talk to me
HullabaLuLu · 04/06/2009 16:01
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