Hi, Very new to this, so here goes. I have a dd who is 3yrs 4 months old. Since day one we have had heaps of problems with her in regards to her health with colic, reflux, took ages for this to be picked up and medication given. Child would just cry all the time day/night. Never got into a sleep pattern at all. We had to have help with this as we were so tired day/night, just couldn't cope with it all. My daughter and I went into a hospital to have some help with this, spent over two months working on this problem, had nurses putting her down to sleep and doing the controlled crying with her (just to let u know dd was about 6 months old when we started this, my partner and I had also tried at home, but dd went for over 6 hours first night non stop screaming the house down....I could not cope with the screaming, she would not give up, very strong willed) six weeks into this and they the specialists/nurses were blown away with this child and too didn't think she ever would get into a routine. It was so hard to listen to your child screaming night after night, week after week etc. She did get a wee bit better but then it all would just go out the window and back again to the start. DD they didn't have any answers for really, she was put in the hard pile, said they have only ever had one other child through there like her. We then went onto sleeping drugs, but that didn't work, then dd at around 18months started to have seizures, the stop breathing turning blue etc just blow me away, got to the stage that she would sleep in the bed with us, so I could keep a eye on her, as well as we all could get some sleep. So really from then it went on to sharing a bed with her, she did have a cot of her own and a bedroom at the early stages. So over all trying not to make this too long. DD still sleeps with me, won't or can't go to sleep on her owe or at a reasonable hour (like she is still full on at 11.00pm at night)will only sleep when I go to bed and if I try going earlier which I have done for a good length of time, she is out the bed full on, no way going to sleep at this hour...like 8.30- 9.00pm. If I was to put her in her own room, own bed on her own I know she will scream the house down for days/weeks probably years........and this is something I can't handle, she also likes me to rub her back to help relax her off to sleep, and needs to have her body contact with me close, I mean here like her legs over me, so she knows I am there, otherwise she will wake up..... any suggest....
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Pippi · 19/04/2003 12:04
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