My problem is lack of sleep. Still.
DD (15 weeks) goes down about 11pm usually, and is normally up for a feed about 1.30am, for half an hour or so.
She is then up again around 3.30. Usually until 5.30, so about 2 hours.
This has been going on for weeks and is not a growth spurt. (That is a whole other topic for a different thread!)
She isn't really hungry during those 2 hours, well she might be to start with, she'll have a feed, drop off to sleep, and then wake up and cry as soon as I put her down. Rinse, repeat etc. I am sure she wants the comfort, because the only way we can seem to settle her to sleep is to feed her (she is BF).
DH tries, but she gets more and more and more wound up. We tried it without me in the room, and she was supersonic with rage. I walked back in, and she was all smiles. Which is what makes me think it is comfort rather than hunger, because she stopped crying when she saw me, rather than when I fed her. However, I can't get her to settle without feeding her. Rocking, singing, patting, shushing, etc, she just winds up instead of down (we had a thread on this last week).
I get hardly any sleep. She has started to sporadically nap during the day (hurrah at last!)
We have tried putting her down earlier, but not to great success. She seems to think she has done all the necessary sleeping by about midnight and that she can stay up the rest of the night!
So, a friend has suggested offering her some water so that she gets the message, but I am reluctant as I know BF babies don't need water. She won't take her dummy any more, although she used to. She'll only take it if I have been BFing her until she is sleepy then I do a "swap" and pop her in the cot.
Any suggestions, wise people?
I just want to sleep for a longer stretch than 45 minutes at a time!
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pookamoo · 11/03/2009 22:29
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