So my MIL has been going on about DS going into his own room since pretty much the day he was born (she put hers in their own room at 2 weeks old ). She mentions this at least on every visit we pay to her or she pays to us. He sleeps in his cot in our room as the second bedroom is down two flights of stairs and very cold (sorted by a convector heater!). He turns 1 next week. And we FINALLY moved him into his own room last night and I feel strangely bereaved by the move (didn't feel that way when he went into nursery 4 weeks ago!). I miss hearing the breathing of my LO. The only reason we moved him was because we were waking him up by doing perfectly normal stuff like coming to bed, breathing and turning over!
Anyway, I got this email from my mum today (I come from a culture that co-sleeps a lot and even if not sharing a bed, sharing a room is very normal till a couple of years old):
"I feel that [DS] is too young to be left alone at night. There are cases whereby, babies just hurt themselves by climbing up and down, or playing with switches or doing anything wrong without your knowledge, I personally feel that he needs guidance and care. As a note of caution please seriously look into this matter."
All I can say is and you just CAN'T win!
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angel1976 · 16/02/2009 14:24
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