Hello, just started a new thread really, feeling really low. I still can't get my DD (15 weeks) to nap easily, today she was up at 8 and finally napped in the sling at 12.30, in between times I had tried her in a rocking swing I bought but no good, another waste of money, and been walking for an hour before she nodded off. She was awake then at 1.45 and I was trying to keep her awake until bedtime but I was so tired DH took her and I fell asleep and she napped between 4 and 5 which she never does for me normally; and he's now trying to get her to sleep, which we have got a bit better by feeding her, putting her in her cot awake and rocking and singing 10 in the bed - this is much better as we used to have to drag the dam thing back and forth before she'd settle, at least we've cut that out. She went for a week waking up at 4.30/5 which was bliss, but now she'll be awake again at 2, then I co sleep but some nights she won't go back to sleep at all until 4/5, other nights if she does she'll be awake every 1 1/2 or 2 hours until 8. I have been thinking of going to Andrea Grace with the last of my savings but her website states she dosn't believe in co-sleeping and says that taking her to bed will encourage her to wake, and I can't cope with feeding at night sitting up again; when she was little we tried it and I was so uncomfortable and would fall asleep and nearly drop her; she would never settle afterwards and I'd be awake even longer. I have tried putting her back in her bed and rocking her but she will just scream and wake up DH, and as he has to drive for work I'm just not happy with him being sleep deprived too. This is just a rant really, I just seem to get so depressed about things as I can't seem to get her to nap and all of the advice is about working on how they all ready nap, which she does so rarely. I have to walk for 2 + hours to get her to go off, she will sometimes feed to sleep in the day but is wake in 10 mins - I sit holding her but she wakes up no matter how still I am. I have tried wrapping her up and leaving her, I have tried repeating the night time routine but every time she will scream and scream and I can't bare to leave her, I just don't think it's right. Everytime I try something this week and it dosn't work, I get upset and feel like it will never change.
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Oh God,sleep is getting worse, have looked at Andrea Grace but she's anti-co-sleeping, am I just a lightweight as baby is small...
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tenacityflux · 21/01/2009 19:55
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