I have been attempting gradual retreat method with nearly 14 month old dd for over 2 months now, and seem to be getting nowhere. Books seem to say 'when baby goes to sleep within 15 mins move to next stage' ie nearer door, but it's still taking her an hour, sometimes more to go to sleep. She has same routine (supper 5pm, bath 6pm, bed 7pm bf, stories) but once lights out constantly gets up in her cot, crawls around, sings, claps etc and then cries. I'm trying to walk out briefly when she stands, to try to teach her to stay lying down, but it doesn't seem to be working. I think the problem has arisen because she bf to sleep for a v long time. Her sleep overnight has got worse too, she used to wake once at about 4 (and I bf, much to annoyance of hv, so it's probably all my fault) and now she's waking at 12, 4 and 6, which is exhausting....suggestions gratefully received!
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Help, what am I doing wrong with gradual retreat?
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tuftysays · 13/01/2009 12:01
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