Aaargh. My 7 month old dd's sleep has been not great but liveable-with at night and utterly appalling by day. Now it's gone crazy at night as well. Basically she was born to co-sleep and it's her bad luck really that she has one parent who sleeps incredibly deeply and one who sleeps very restlessly and both are too petrified to sleep at all when she is in the bed She just hates to be without the warmth and presence of a familiar body and always has done. She also does NOT give up - all the patting, soothing, cuddlies, spat-out dummies etc. etc. do not distract her from the fact that she wants what she wants and has always become hysterical if she doesn't get what she wants even though she has never been left alone to cry.
I feel stuck between a rock and a hard place because of my toddler (who has had problems of his own recently and really doesn't need any big disruptions in his life). He finds the sound of her crying (which is VERY loud) unbearable and if she cries at night he responds with tantrums of his own - which pretty much makes it impossible to settle her as neither will settle down unless the other does On the other hand gentle "no-cry" solutions which I've been trying a) don't stop her crying and b)take me away from him for the hours that she isn't settling down or is sleeping on me (there are only so many stories you can read...)
The end result is that I don't get any sleep by night and she doesn't get any by day. Anyone struggling with the same thing? Should we write a book on "baby-training with 2 without being too horrible?"
(sobs quietly into her morning decaf...)
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SummerChicken · 05/11/2008 08:01
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