Tried for 1st time to get DS (2) to sleep in a bed in his new room tonight. He loves the new bed (which has been there for weeks), clearly understood that he was going to sleep there tonight and seemed quite happy at the prospect beforehand. Total failure.
45 mins of hysterical crying unless he was loose in the roon, in which case just unhappy crying, escalating to hysterical crying after a short while. Whenever DP was in the room trying to persuade him to stay in bed or trying to hold him on his lap, he cried hysterically (DP always does his bedtime).
We are not prepared to leave him to cry for more than short periods (2 mins tops) when he is that upset. Grizzly, 'I'm really tired and am probably going to sleep if you leave me' is fine, and happens about one night in four anyway, but not when he's that upset.
DP tried to do 'just putting him back into bed without comment' but that made no break in the hysterical crying, and in fact made it worse.
In the end DP couldn't cope anymore so I brought DS downstairs for half an hour and we read a book and he drank some milk. Then DP took him back up to his cot in his old room. He's taken longer to settle, and more crying that usual, but I think he is finally asleep, an hour later than usual.
I can't physically lift and wrangle DS at the moment (baby due in 5 weeks and have some complications). And it was at the edge of what DP can physically do anyway, now DS is so strong and agile. DP is having a hard time emotionally anyway with other stuff and so is less able to cope with DS crying than usual. We can't do that again.
The only thing that might help I can think of is moving his cot into the new room, so that he gets used to the room first. But I don't really think that's the problem - he really likes the room and knows it well. And the nuclear option is buying another cot for the baby once they outgrow the Moses basket (which probably won't be til after Christmas anyway). But that won't help once he can climb out of the cot, which he's very close to doing anyway.
Anyone got any suggestions that aren't essentially 'keep putting him back' and 'leave him to cry'? We're a bit desperate here.
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Well that was a total disaster (cot to bed)
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Lovage · 03/09/2008 21:16
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