Dd, 2.4, has consistently refused to sleep anywhere near me since she was about 2 weeks old. Even when I've wanted her to she wants her 'own bed.' So she's been sleeping alone in her cot most of her life and sleeping very well. However over the last few months she's been waking in the night and calling for me. I go down and she always asks to 'sleep in mummy's bed' (mummy's bed being a single mattress we have on her bedroom floor for when she doesn't fancy the cot which is never and also for sleeping in her room when she's ill / we're worried about her). At first I resisted doing it because I thought it would be like the old days when she'd wriggle round and chat for half an hour then when I'm beyond the point of sleep ask to go back into her own bed. But now it's the opposite the moment she lies down next to me she's out and she sleeps very well.
I, however, don't. A single mattress with a toddler isn't comfortable and I'm not used to sleeping with her. I like it in so many ways because I know she's safe and I can hear her soft breathing. And I wouldn't mind if it was very occasional but I've been fooling myself it would be and in fact it's at least 3 times a week now. Sometimes I'm there most of the night from about midnight onwards but mostly I'm there from about 2-4am until morning.
What would you do? Treat it as a phase? Get tough?
Has anything like this happened to you guys?
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mummylonglegs · 09/02/2005 15:15
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