We're at the end of our tether with DS - he's waking two to three times a night and screaming hysterically for up to an hour at a time, whether or not we're holding him. Not only is it exhausting, it's emotionally draining as well. There's no way of calming him except giving him milk (he then goes back to sleep) but I don't believe he needs 3 bottles of milk to get through the night. And he's still waking to start the day at 5.30am. Grrr.
Anyhow, although I know in theory a fair bit about sleep training, I also know we can't do this without moral and emotional support. When dd was little (also a dreadful sleeper) we had a wonderful HV who made some fantastic suggestions and gave us lots of support while we did gradual withdrawal and she was sleeping through within a week at 11 months. But this hasn't worked with ds - and we need someone who knows what they're doing to help us through this, I think.
We tried Millpond when he was quite a bit smaller - I wasn't that impressed, as even though we followed their suggestions to the letter he was still waking hourly (though was more easily settled than before) and they basically washed their hands of him when we said we weren't prepared to do controlled crying.
I've looked at the websites for Naturally Nurturing and Andrea Grace - any others? Are either of these any good?
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snickersnack · 28/07/2008 22:13
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