Hi everyone, I’m a concerned dad of a toddler who has just turned two. My concern is for both my boy and my wife. The problem we’re having at the moment is our little boy is waking up throughout the night, often multiple times, and simply won’t go back to sleep without his mum putting him back to bed, and more often than not with a cuddle.
For some background, we transitioned him out of cot and onto a mattres around Easter time, and then a few weeks later into his first big boy bed. Before this, when he was still in his cot, he was generally pretty good with his sleeping.
But since then it has been a nightmare for both him and us as parents. If he wakes in the night he will come into our room and if we don’t let him come into our bed he will scream the house down. Only rarely will we let him into bed in the middle of the night, we usually only let him in from around 4:30 / 5:00. If I try and put him back to bed he’ll just scream the place down and go to his mum, who at the moment, can’t even go to the bathroom without him getting upset.
So I was just wondering what advice anyone could possibly offer. Are we looking at a severe case of separation anxiety; night terrors - as he is sometimes quiet upset when he wakes in the night; a combination of the two or something else entirely?
I should also mention that this year he began day care, which he hated at first, and dropping him off was quite difficult as he would get very upset when either of us dropped him off. Now he is much better with it, however if his mum drops him off, he will still get very upset, which is why I always do the drop off.
Any help or advice is greatly appreciated.
Thank you.
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AusParent21 · 12/06/2021 23:44
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