My 3.5 month old DD has always been hard to get to sleep - since a few weeks old she's not slept more than 12 hours total most days. She could happily stay awake for hours during the day but I work hard to make her nap, though she rarely does more than 30 mins at a time unless in the sling. Most days we only manage around 2.5 hours of naps.
Nights are my main concern. It seems like everyone I speak to with a baby of similar age is sleeping through the night, or at least doing long stretches of 5 or 6 hours. The most we've ever managed in one go is 4.5 hours, and that was only once. Recently we've settled into a pattern where she sleeps for 3 hours, then 2 hours, then 1 hour, then I have to give up and let her lie on my chest. My DH takes her from about 6.30 and she sleeps in the sling on him for another couple of hours.
When she wakes up at night she's generally not upset, at least initially - more restless. I feed her back to sleep but am not always sure if she's actually hungry or just wants the cuddle.
I was coping ok with the lack of sleep but now I'm getting so tired and frustrated, and jealous of those people with sleeping babies. I feel like I must be missing something or doing something wrong. I spoke to my HV who wasn't very helpful - she quickly said it's probably reflux and told me to try Infacol or gripe water, but I really don't think it is reflux. Can anyon let me in on the secret of a sleeping baby?
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3ormorecharacters · 04/04/2021 05:14
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