Hi all
Really need some help/tips for my DD who has just turned 2.
We had a tough first year of her sleeping, however after trying the cry it out method one night when she turned 1 we were lucky enough to seen her sleep in her cot 7 till 7 (plus a good day nap) for a year.
Now she has turned 2 it’s gone out the window and suspect it’s the 2yr sleep regression? (Coupled with starting nursery, clock changes, getting brighter...who knows what else)
So since she turned 2 (2wks ago) she literally dropped all day naps and we struggled to get her to sleep and had to spent afew hrs doing the bedtime routine and still she cried and screamed. Managed to sort that out about a week ago and she settled well now, but now she is waking up 3.30am-4am wanting only one thing, us! Struggling with 1) having to wake up at this time daily isn’t going to be sustainable and 2) we bring her into our bed at this point and even though she might fall asleep for abit is so fidgety it’s not fun for us and we don’t really get much sleep.
Has anyone been through this before and what worked? Is this just the regression? I also worried she will become dependent on this and it becomes a routine.
Some points that might help
- the day naps have definitely gone. She just isn’t interested, but we still have chill time at 1 with blankets on sofa. No sleeping happens. There have been afew days she has been close to closing eyes but never sleeps
- fairly certain she isn’t hungry or anything like that
- room is blacked out so no light is waking her
- still has cot and grobag but it works as she sleeps till 3.30am
- is still wears nappies but are trying potty training unsuccessfully
- has dummy and comforter but again neither of these work when she wakes up. They do help settle her at 7pm though
- bedtime routine is bath and books and eventually she is down asleep between 7am - 7.20am.
Thanks