I was up until 2am last night! God knows why my 6 month old chose to stay awake that long.
She usually has a later bedtime because at the moment it suits our life style and dad does night shifts at work and doesn't really see her. Plus she gets up around 9:30am so she's not ready for bed until 9pm.
However last night was a different story. She went down at 9pm until 10pm and woke up and didn't go back to sleep until 2am. She wakes up after falling asleep first time round for some reason. She is EBF and currently sleeps in my bed since dad isn't there at night and it's a habit I wish I hadn't got into as now I can't seem to get her out of my bed and into her cot. My fault I know.
We tried to put her in her cot Friday night whilst she was drowsy but awake as I really need her to learn to self settle since I want my boobs and bed back. She laid there for a bit moaning whilst I said goodnight and shut the door. After around 3 minutes she started crying which turned to screaming. I gave her another kiss and said goodnight and left the room again and the screaming started to the point she was gagging. 5 mins later I entered the room and felt I couldn't leave her any longer. For a baby that NEVER cries this was heart breaking. What do I do???? My mum keeps telling me to be stubborn but the thought of the crying still goes round my head now. We live with my partners parents at the moment and her uncle is there in the room next door, I don't think he'd appreciate her screaming when he has work the next day. What do I do? Any advice would be appreciated. I'm a first time mum doing a lot of this on my own. I'm not interested in the extinction method.
Thank you xx
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Foodx123 · 19/01/2021 16:42
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