Hello
For a few weeks my daughter has steadily become more and more tearful at bedtime. Before bedtime she is happy, eats her dinner, playfights with me and laughs a lot. When she climbs into her bed (normal sleep routine prior, no issues) she bursts into tears. She isn't faking it. She gets hot and sweaty and tries to talk, which causes further waves of tears.
It's hard to understand what she's saying when she's like this. The best I have worked out are below:
- She misses her daddy (who she sees every four days, for four days)
- She prefers daddy's house as they have fun (at mine we play jenga, uno and she has access to an ipad and pc, and we play fight with pillows and I pull faces at her which makes her squeal)
- She's afraid of her daddy getting hurt. I don't know why.
So it's all about her daddy. None of this is a reasonable cause for her really emotional outbursts at bedtime. Something about climbing into bed is triggering this and she is having trouble explaining her thoughts and feelings.
I wondered if anyone has any advice for me please?