My LO is 18 weeks and we have been going through the dreaded 4 months regression.
She started to fight naps during the day (and only has very short naps, which is new for her) and, at night, it has become increasingly harder to put her down “drowsy but awake”. She falls asleep whilst feeding so she either goes down fully asleep or, if we try to do so while still awake, it’s inconsolable cry until she is fed to sleep again.
Now, I know all the theory and I know her issue is that she needs to learn to fall asleep on her own and that being at the breast has now become the only way she can drift off and I have to wean her out of this etc etc... i know, i know but let me tell you - it’s IMPOSSIBLE to do so! At least right now. There was a time when she was smaller when we practiced putting her down half awake and she would drift off - this is no longer possible unfortunately. We keep trying but it always ends in tragedy so I have to feed her to sleep every time.
Did this happen to any of you? Is there a chance she will naturLly grow out of it when she is older? I don’t believe in any form of sleep training that involves crying and don’t actually mind feeding her to sleep. I just wonder if I am making things harder for myself for the future (is she going to keep waking up 3-4 times a night wanting to feed when she is 1yo?). Please share your experience. Sometimes I feel I am doing it all wrong, others I am confident I am just following my instinct and just giving her what she needs.
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4 month sleep regression and feeding to sleep
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Marghe87 · 07/01/2021 16:03
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