DP and I decided to use his Xmas holidays to try and make some positive changes to sleep in the family.
We have a 9 month old DD who has been breastfeeding to sleep since birth. We were in a pattern of feed to sleep around 7pm, multiple wake ups and resettles until we went to bed, another feed then usually awake at 1-2am and into our bed, co sleeping and intermittently feeding for the rest of the night.
To be honest, apart from the evening wake ups, I didn’t feel too tired as I would side lie feed and co sleep.
However I’m going back to work next month, long hours (13 hour shifts) and night shifts 9pm-10am. Plus a commute that can easily take an hour (although potentially due to covid maybe won’t take as long as it used to).
I’m worried about being engorged at work, being in emergency situations where I can’t get a break to pump and also having DD feed all night when I’m home so I won’t get much sleep anyway.
We’ve started the “stay and support” method from the Lucy Wolfe book. I now feed downstairs around 630pm and then we go up, do a bedtime routine and one of us then sits by the cot until DD goes to sleep. Same for night wake ups except I feed once overnight.
Last night was night 6- the evening wake ups have completely stopped. However overnight DD still wakes frequently, managed to pat her back to sleep once but more often than not I’ll give a feed, but leave her awake after and then try and settle back in cot.
In some ways I feel we are making slow progress, in others I’m worried I’m just confusing her and I should just go cold turkey on night feeds?
Has anyone night weaned around 9 months and had success?
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9 month old- trying to stop feeding to sleep, am I doing the right thing?
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singme · 03/01/2021 10:49
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