Feeling pretty terrible and need some advice, first time mum of one 10 month old boy. He’s a very tall boy (in 18-24mth clothes minimum!) he wakes frequently in the night and cries so much he can’t get back to sleep himself. I go in and try to comfort him but he is usually wide awake by this point and nothing but the pram and a bottle will get him back to sleep (I’ve tried sitting with him and calming him but it hasn’t worked so far).
I’m just looking for some advice if I’m going wrong somewhere and what your bedtime routines are/ if your lo sleeps through or if this is normal? (I’ve asked HV and she said he shouldn’t be having a feed in the night with him 3 meals and 3 feeds in the day and that he should be sleeping through)
Also when he does wake and try’s to get himself back to sleep how long do you leave the murmur and small cry’s for before you go in? I try to leave it but when he’s really upset I can’t help but go in but have been told by so many people “let him cry it out” which I really don’t want to do.
Just trying to get him to sleep - suffering with PTSD from the birth so no sleep is making us both suffer - LO and me
Any advice is welcome 🙏
Our current bedtime routine is;
5pm - tea time meal
5:30pm - play
6pm - bath time
6:30pm - books in cot light on with a bottle
7pm - lie down ready for bed sit with little one with nightlight on singing/ shushing/ rubbing tummy until he falls asleep
Please no judgement I already feel like I’m doing something wrong 😭
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Feel like a crap 1st time mum - 10mo won’t sleep
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Emmmmmmxxxxxx · 14/12/2020 10:02
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