Hello fellow mums!
How strange to be posting on Mumsnet again, last time I did was almost a year ago when I needed confirmation of a 2nd faint line on my pregnancy test
Anyway, I am now the proud mother of a 10 week old little girl. And obviously having problems with sleep hah!
I am dead set on breastfeeding, and did find it really hard in the beginning. However it’s now going really well, and I really enjoy not having to heat up bottles, and being able to bond with my baby etc.
However, I am really starting to wonder if breastfeeding is really compatible with us both sleeping properly. Speaking to other mums of 2-month old babies who are bottle fed, they now all seem to “go down” for naps at specific times, have set bedtimes at night, and sleep for super long stretches ; if not through the night!!!
My experience is so much more chaotic thus far... there is absolutely no routine to speak of, as she still eats at various times each day and night (I feed on demand), and I am therefore never able to “put her to bed” or “put her down” for naps. Most of the time she’ll just sleep in my arms after breastfeeding, and wakes up as soon as I put her down (be it in her sleepyhead or next-to-me bed). At night she’ll fall asleep in my arms while I eat dinner or watch TV, and I’ll then transfer her into her bed when I myself go to bed around 10pm. It’s impossible to put her down alone in there before then. In the middle of the night she’ll wake at least twice to eat, which I obviously find perfectly acceptable, but will then NOT accept to be put back down in her bed... so I’m always up most of the night popping her dummy back in, or stroking her face, until it’s time for her next feeding! I’m exhausted!!
I have such a strong feeling that it would all be so much easier if she were bottle fed... because I’d be able to establish a proper routine.
Hence my question ; is it at all possible to really get proper sleep while breastfeeding?!
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Is breastfeeding and sleep really compatible?
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mimmi91 · 03/12/2020 15:13
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