Hiya
I am really struggling with understanding why my seven week old won't sleep anywhere apart from either in my or my partner's arms, or next to my partner in the adult's bed.
My baby sleeps in her own next-to-me-crib for less than 10% of her sleeping life. This makes it incredibly difficult to do anything during the day because whilst she sleeps, at least one of our hands are tied, so we have no respite even when she is sleeping.
I love spending time with baby when she is awake but I don't see how we can function if we have to hold baby or lie next to baby for 24 hours a day (approx 18 hours whilst she is asleep and 6 hours whilst she is awake!)
During the first two weeks after baby came, I was very strict in only allowing baby to sleep in her own crib but this all changed when I started sleeping in the spare room (because I work and mum is on mat leave). Mum then started putting baby next to her during the nights on the same bed and holding her in her arms during the day. Now baby just won't sleep anywhere else.
I would like to know how many people let their baby sleep in their arms and bed during the first few months and for what %, compared to letting/making baby sleep in the baby's own bed?
Also, have we created bad habits? Which we can help baby unlearn? And if so, how?!
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7 week old won't sleep anywhere apart from in my arms
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Faraz · 22/11/2020 12:26
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