Hi sleep gurus of Mumsnet, please help me!
Want to start helping our nearly four month old to sleep better as his night wakings seems driving me mad. (Every 40 mins)
When he turns 4 months next week we plan to try Pick Up Put Down, but even after reading the Baby Whisperer book I’m unclear on a few points. V grateful for any advice.
- when DS is in his crib and not crying, should I shush pat (TH says this good for this age range) or instead be talking to him (it’s sleepy time now darling etc etc with a hand on him)?
- for the night wakings, I am still going to need to feed him probably twice. Can I let him fall asleep on the breast at this point or do I need to unlatch him while awake and do PUPD?
- when I pick him up should I just stand still and hold up while shushing, or is it ok to walk around the room?
- last question! Should all this be done in a dark room or would it be ok to have lamp on low?
Sorry I know these questions are ridiculously pernickity but I’ve read enough to know it’s best to get this method right if you want it to work.
Thanks so much in advance.