DS is now 5 weeks old and since birth has been a terrible sleeper. However it seems to be getting worse!
Of course, he is too small to have any sort of routine and I am happy doing whatever it takes to get him to sleep (rocking, contact napping, walks etc) at this stage but the problem is that we can get him to sleep but nothing works to keep him asleep.
He has to have motion to fall asleep, so rocking, patting, in the pram, in the car etc. He will eventually go to sleep by one of these methods although it does take a while. However no matter what, once he's fallen asleep he will wake up between 5 minutes and max 30 minutes later. Even if he's asleep on me or my husband, he starts to squirm/thrash about and wakes himself up without fail. We have to constantly pat/jiggle when he's sleeping on one of us in order to try to keep him asleep. It doesn't seem to make a difference whether he's on our chests, in a moses basket, in his swing chair (which we've recently bought to see if the motion helped keep him asleep) - like clockwork he's awake within a few minutes. It is impossible to get anything done, or get any kind of sleep myself.
At night he will sleep 3-4 hours when he is first put down for the night (usually between 9 and 10pm when we go up to bed) swaddled and in his Snuzpod next to the bed. But once he wakes for a feed, he's back to waking up frequently (max half an hour or so) until we give up and have to get up at about 5am.
We've tried swaddling him for naps in the Snuzpod during the day, swaddling him in the swing chair, swaddling him in the moses basket. Nothing works! We've tried a dummy but if he falls asleep with this in he wakes as soon as he spits it out.
As a result we have a constantly overtired, screaming baby. He does suffer from colic/reflux (we think - nobody can tell us for sure, all seems to be trial and error) and has been having Gaviscon and just about to start Omeprazole. He screams whenever he is awake, and given that he doesn't ever sleep - this is all the time!
I'm at my wits end - I wouldn't mind if he wanted to sleep only on me all day but he won't even do that.
Any advice welcome, he is averaging about 8-9 hours sleep over a 24 hour period which for a newborn is ridiculously little. I genuinely don't know how he physically copes.
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5 week old unable to stay asleep - please help, at my wits end
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moonriver32 · 28/10/2020 13:14
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