My daughter (9 months) hasn't slept longer then 2 consecutive hours since she was around 4 months old. 2 hour stints is actually a good night and quite often its every 40min or 1 hour. Any sort of leaving to cry method isn't for me at all and so far its been manageable (although not fun) because we co-sleep and she falls asleep instantly when I pop the dummy back in.
However I just found out Im pregnant and would like to try and improve her sleep before the morning sickness etc begins..again I don't want to leave her to cry but want to try and improve things. I think the main culprit is the dummy as she doesn't insert it herself. She can actually insert it when awake / in the day time but at night she wakes up crying with her eyes closed flapping her arms about and doesn't even try to find it so not sure how that will ever improve.
The strange thing my mum baby-sits quite often she completely self settles with her..I've seen videos so she's not making it up! She wakes once for a feed and then sleeps 5-6 hour legs..she settles without the dummy! I thought it might be breastfeeding so I've knocked the night feeds off and just give her 1 bottle but its made no difference.
If I wasn't pregnant I'd be fine with rolling with it but know I'm going to be shattered on this much sleep. Would taking the dummy away help? I just don't get how she can settle without it at my mums but even with my husband when he does a night shift she wakes very frequently.
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Bets2801 · 25/10/2020 20:57
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